Why Do I Have to Turn Down the Radio to Think?

Turns out you have more than five senses… and understanding them might explain why you feel overwhelmed, overstimulated, or completely unable to people or task.

One of the things I tell clients all the time is that it’s really hard to people or task when your senses aren’t regulated.

Think about driving. You’re trying to find an address or make a tricky turn, and without even thinking about it, you reach over and turn down the radio. The music isn’t blocking your view, and making it quieter doesn’t magically improve your eyesight. But somehow, it helps.

Your brain is reducing one source of input so it has more bandwidth for the task at hand.

Now imagine the opposite.

Have you ever walked into Buc-ee’s and immediately thought, “Absolutely not.” The lights, the conversations, the smell of brisket, the crowds, the wall of snacks… for some people it’s a dream destination. For others, their nervous system is already plotting the quickest route back to the parking lot.

Neither reaction is wrong.

This process is called sensory regulation, and it’s one of the simplest, most practical ways to support your nervous system when you’re feeling overwhelmed, overstimulated, or stuck in survival mode.

Your Nervous System Is Always Paying Attention

Most of us don’t spend much time thinking about our senses until they’re bothering us.

But your nervous system is constantly taking in information and deciding what’s important, what’s safe, and what can be ignored. When there’s too much input, or sometimes not enough, it becomes harder to focus, communicate, solve problems, or regulate emotions.

This is especially true for neurodivergent folks and people who have experienced trauma, but honestly, it happens to all of us.

Sometimes your brain needs less input. That’s why you turn down the radio, leave a noisy room, or put on noise-canceling headphones before tackling a project.

Other times it needs more input. Maybe you blast your favorite playlist while cleaning, go for a brisk walk to wake yourself up, chew gum while concentrating, or find yourself bouncing your leg during a meeting.

The goal isn’t to eliminate stimulation.

The goal is to understand what helps your nervous system function at its best.

Wait… There Are More Than Five Senses?

Here’s the part that surprises almost everyone.

Most of us grew up learning about sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. Those are important, but they’re not the whole story.

There are several additional sensory systems quietly working in the background every day. I jokingly call them the “bonus senses” because once clients learn about them, they suddenly have language for experiences they’ve had their entire lives.

The three I talk about most often in therapy are proprioception, vestibular awareness, and interoception.

Proprioception: Your Body’s Internal GPS

Proprioception is your awareness of where your body is in space. It’s how you can scratch your nose with your eyes closed or carry a cup of coffee without staring at your hand.

It also explains why deep pressure and resistance can feel so regulating.

Weighted blankets, yoga, lifting weights, stretching, gardening, carrying heavy grocery bags, or even getting a really good hug all give your brain extra information about where your body is. For many people, that creates a sense of grounding and stability.

Clients will often tell me, “I don’t know why that helps, but it does.”

Now you know why.

Vestibular: Your Sense of Movement and Balance

Your vestibular system lives in your inner ear and helps your brain understand movement and balance.

Have you ever noticed that you think better while walking? Or that pacing during a phone call helps you organize your thoughts? Maybe rocking in a chair helps you settle after a stressful day.

That’s your vestibular system at work.

Movement changes how the nervous system processes information, which is one reason so many people instinctively go for a walk when they’re stressed or need to think through a problem.

Interoception: Listening to What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You

Interoception is your awareness of what’s happening inside your body.

It’s how you notice hunger, thirst, fatigue, a racing heart, butterflies in your stomach, or the first signs that you’re getting overwhelmed.

For many trauma survivors and neurodivergent folks, this system gets quieter over time.

When your body has spent years feeling uncomfortable, overstimulated, or unsafe, one way to cope is to stop paying attention to it. You push through hunger until you’re shaky. You ignore exhaustion until you crash. You don’t realize you have to use the bathroom until it’s urgent. You miss the early signs of stress because you’ve gotten so used to living with them.

In many ways, the mind and body stop working as a team.

One of the most healing things we can do is simply start listening again.

That’s why I spend so much time talking about sensory regulation in therapy. Learning to notice your senses and your body’s signals isn’t just interesting information. It’s an intervention. Every time you pause to ask yourself, Am I thirsty? Am I overwhelmed? Do I need movement? Do I need quiet? you’re strengthening your connection with your nervous system.

And the better you get at noticing what your body needs, the easier it becomes to meet those needs before you’re completely depleted.

Why This Matters in Trauma Therapy

Trauma doesn’t just affect our memories. It affects our relationship with our bodies.

Many people spend years in survival mode, overriding what their body is telling them because that’s what they had to do to get through the day. They become disconnected from early warning signs and only notice a need once it’s become impossible to ignore.

That’s one reason sensory regulation is such an important part of trauma therapy and EMDR.

Before we ask the brain to process painful experiences, we often help the body feel a little safer, steadier, and more connected. Paying attention to sensory input, whether that means adding movement, reducing noise, stretching, eating lunch before you’re starving, or taking five minutes in a quiet room, helps rebuild trust between the mind and the body.

It sounds simple, but it can be profoundly healing.

A Different Question to Ask Yourself

The next time you can’t focus, feel overwhelmed, or find yourself completely unable to people or task, try asking a different question.

Instead of asking, “What’s wrong with me?”
try asking, “What does my nervous system need right now?”

Maybe it needs quiet… or movement… or maybe it needs a snack, a glass of water, or a break from fluorescent lights and notifications.

Maybe it just needs you to notice that it’s struggling instead of pushing through one more thing.

The goal isn’t to become perfectly regulated, and I make no promises that Buc-ee’s will suddenly become your favorite place on Earth.

The goal is to rebuild trust with your own body.

Because paying attention to your senses isn’t just a coping strategy. For many people healing from trauma or navigating a neurodivergent brain, it’s one of the first ways the mind and body learn to work together again.

And when that happens, it often gets a little easier to think clearly, connect with other people, and yes… people and task.

Updated 2026, originally published in February 2025 as “Sensory Regulation Essentials: How Your 8 Senses Support Healing”

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